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True Love

“The love will never be with but forever which you want” a girl told to her beloved. Is it true to find a true is tough? Rally not and truly right. There are many different points on this issue that love remains and retrains the habit of somebody easily. The question arises in everyone’s mind that what is true love? What is pure love? What are the feelings for love? How It can be made true if someone wants it? In love world thousands of questions are unanswered. I would like o share my personal feelings. She may not read it but really people will enjoy it

You know the person I’m talking about. That hot guy playing basketball at the gym… the cute girl who makes eye contact as she passes by… the friend of a friend of a friend… maybe a best friend. It’s that person we keep track of when he or she is in the same room, whose comments and actions we analyze to no end.

There are a few things love isn’t. Love isn’t a feeling. Although real love is often accompanied by strong feelings, love does not equate with the sense of floating on clouds. Unlike the type of love that movies, television, and songs portray, people in love don’t always feel ooey gooey around each other.

The true love wants to feel something, but it tends to be in few people’s hand. A few people get a chance to meet her.

William butler says “True love is a discipline in which each divines the secret self of the other and refuses to believe in the mere daily self.”

Love is the most beautiful thing that can happen to someone, because that is one shared feeling. When you meet someone and fall in love with him that is not the true love still. If this person shares your feelings that still is not the true love.

But it is true that this is the first step to that amazing feeling. The true love is something more than falling in love. She is at the first place trust, because without him every relationship is fated and can’t survive a long time. When you have trust in your partner you are anxiety-free. That must be shared because when the one person in the relationship believes in the other, but the other don’t do this, this leads to problems and probably to broke up. The true love is a friendship. You must to can be not only lover to your partner, you must be his friend.

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres. Love never fails.” —I Corinthians 13:4-8a (NIV)

One of the sites describes love in its page that “Love is best seen as devotion and action, not an emotion. Love is not exclusively based on how we feel. Certainly our emotions are involved, but they cannot be our only criteria for love. True devotion will always lead to action—true love.”

When the love is shared, she is a true love and makes you one better person and the world look like a better place for a living. When you and your partner have the same thinking and the same conception for the life, you can be together a very long time. The true love is when two people want to spend their time together in loving each other and when their love survives all of the obstacles, which they meet during their life together. Furthermore, if the people are able to keep their love the same as it was in the beginning throughout the years, you can say that this is true love.

Sex is not love! Our culture has taught us that sex and love are one in the same. This is a lie. Sex is a beautiful God-given activity that is wonderful when practiced within the boundaries of a Biblical marriage. Sex is the completion of the binding of two people within Biblical marriage; it is a God-given gift.

You won’t understand love

Do Girls Ditch Boys? Did She Sitch You?

Ditched love life 

Do girls really like ditching boys? Do they really ditch boys? What is in their mind when they are trying o ditch?

Love is lust, love is a pure feelings, love is dirty things many people will explain it in their way because many mind many head but what is exact meaning no one knows so far all have their own experience definitions examples and stories.

Love is blind, deaf, dumb, lame, and silly but not when you are with the right person

Once when I was having a debate with some English language learner on this topic on of the man spoke about it loudly “Girls are sick of their thoughts. They never understand the truth. Lot of them have an immature mind & think themselves as the legends.. & what they think is the right one… 90% of the girls are of same psychology” I was not agreed that time

The only time where girls ditch some one is when the boyfriend does not have enough money, time, knowledge , status , feelings and understanding and , if she finds some one more handsome ,attractive, pleasant knowledgeable  and find something which match to her choices  she will definitely elope with other guy. One of my corporate friends explained the reason of it

“If a guy really likes a lady, he doesn't ditch her, unless she isn't available or not willing to make it work with him. But in this instance, I don't think he must have really liked you. Not that you aren't worth really liking, but that this dude obviously didn't have the good sense to treat you kindly.”

People who are in relations with girls or who were in relationship will think different on his issue that girls never ditch but it really beyond people’s mind to understand a girl’s mind Tulsidas Wrote in the Ramayana About woman “TRIYA CHARITRA NA JANE KOI …..” Even shy girls will unlikely deny being attracted to you once they're sure you like them (which you presumably do if you ask her out). If she denies dating you when talking to her friends, she likely wants to leave herself open for a "more ideal boy", and will ditch you when a more suitable man courts her. This is my personal experience and its definite

One of the psychologists explained in public about relations and he writes about in his log “Girls that are attracted to you will generally not treat flirting in a lighthearted manner. They'll likely be nervous, even if they're normally confident. When one is in love, you usually feel like tiny mistakes may ruin the entire relationship, and of course, feel tongue-tied around the person you're attracted to. While some people are more confident than others, and may find courtship easier than others do, few treat it like a simple game.”

Don't take this point as proof that she's not interested, but keep it in mind.

One of the student of IIT write about his personal experience on girls Ditch that

“Believe it or not, it happens. Many girls are guilty of ditch a nice/smart boy. They leave a good, nice guy they've been dating for some bad guy that treats them bad and talks harsh to them. Guys, girls, why is it so? Is there something the bad guy has to offer them that the good guy doesn't possess?”

We don't ditch girls that we really like. Even the best of us probably wouldn't ditch on a girl that we did not like. We would likely still commit to the plan or the date or whatever, but not leave you hanging; it’s not only rude, but inconsiderate.

I am going to go out on a limb here and say that it's very likely that this guy does not really like you. If he liked you then he would have made the date, called you back, apologized or have shown some other form of regret. I am sorry to be a bearer of bad news, but unless he has mental issues that we don't know about, he would not have acted so if he truly liked you. Sorry, I am sure you are a nice person and don't deserve to be ditched, hopefully this was the first and last time it ever happens.

Girls are sincere emotional pure hearted hey seem so but they are not so. Girls may be looking simple genuine but when you start knowing her affairs with other guys you will start crying and you should because it was your mistake not to know her properly

Finally I would love your boy friend and girls friend properly they are for you but beware of the fake ideas. You are to know he reality of love and these relations 

LOVE IS LIFE

What love means for you

When she will talk to you holding your hands you will not remember where you are. They both will be far from the world’s problems its life which needs love on the all corners. When I heard and read about love before seven years ago I found it a boring topic or thought its wastage of the time mind kept growing as well as feeling and experience took place.

 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, and it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres. ~ by 1 Corinthians

In another words I found I somewhere that love is life and life is love “Love is not what the mind thinks, but what the heart feels.” ~ Greg Evans

“The hunger for love is much more difficult to remove than the hunger for bread”- Mother Teresa

Some people say the worst way to miss someone is when they are right next to you and you know you can't have them, but its worse when you thought you didn't want them anymore and then all of a sudden you realize you can't live without them

But when you fall in love with her you need her every time every moment or in every discussion she is also in the all activities of life.

Romance is the part of life Romantic love reaches out in little ways, showing attention and admiration. Romantic love remembers what pleases a woman, what excites her, and what surprises her. Its actions whisper: you are the most special person in my life.

“Love is always open arms. If you close your arms about love you will find that you are left holding only yourself.”

“Keep love in your heart. A life without it is like a sunless garden when the flowers are dead. The consciousness of loving and being loved brings warmth and richness to life that nothing else can bring.”~ Oscar Wilde

How to forget her

Creating news ideas may be easy but removing something, someone from mind is really hard. What A great work to generate new ideas for new generation with creative mind on the other hand removing a person,thing or place which closed to your heart is very tough. i personally realized it several times happening with them. situations may be different but we a to adopt the reality of life. Our life keeps giving new experience according to time. But if you want to remove something or somebody from your mind then these points may be helpful.....
A. Be Calm .. outing the mind from the problem n giving relax to your body is important. Life needs rest with the quiet surroundings at lonely places sometimes.
B. If you are going forget a place it will be easy but if you wanna forget a man or woman then it will take several days
C. Try to remove his or her gifts or memorys as soon as possible because it will make you remember all the time