Thursday, May 31, 2012

Do Girls Ditch Boys? Did She Sitch You?

Ditched love life 

Do girls really like ditching boys? Do they really ditch boys? What is in their mind when they are trying o ditch?
Love is lust, love is a pure feelings, love is dirty things many people will explain it in their way because many mind many head but what is exact meaning no one knows so far all have their own experience definitions examples and stories.
Love is blind, deaf, dumb, lame, and silly but not when you are with the right person
Once when I was having a debate with some English language learner on this topic on of the man spoke about it loudly “Girls are sick of their thoughts. They never understand the truth. Lot of them have an immature mind & think themselves as the legends.. & what they think is the right one… 90% of the girls are of same psychology” I was not agreed that time
The only time where girls ditch some one is when the boyfriend does not have enough money, time, knowledge , status , feelings and understanding and , if she finds some one more handsome ,attractive, pleasant knowledgeable  and find something which match to her choices  she will definitely elope with other guy. One of my corporate friends explained the reason of it
“If a guy really likes a lady, he doesn't ditch her, unless she isn't available or not willing to make it work with him. But in this instance, I don't think he must have really liked you. Not that you aren't worth really liking, but that this dude obviously didn't have the good sense to treat you kindly.”
People who are in relations with girls or who were in relationship will think different on his issue that girls never ditch but it really beyond people’s mind to understand a girl’s mind Tulsidas Wrote in the Ramayana About woman “TRIYA CHARITRA NA JANE KOI …..” Even shy girls will unlikely deny being attracted to you once they're sure you like them (which you presumably do if you ask her out). If she denies dating you when talking to her friends, she likely wants to leave herself open for a "more ideal boy", and will ditch you when a more suitable man courts her. This is my personal experience and its definite
One of the psychologists explained in public about relations and he writes about in his log “Girls that are attracted to you will generally not treat flirting in a lighthearted manner. They'll likely be nervous, even if they're normally confident. When one is in love, you usually feel like tiny mistakes may ruin the entire relationship, and of course, feel tongue-tied around the person you're attracted to. While some people are more confident than others, and may find courtship easier than others do, few treat it like a simple game.”
Don't take this point as proof that she's not interested, but keep it in mind.
One of the student of IIT write about his personal experience on girls Ditch that
“Believe it or not, it happens. Many girls are guilty of ditch a nice/smart boy. They leave a good, nice guy they've been dating for some bad guy that treats them bad and talks harsh to them. Guys, girls, why is it so? Is there something the bad guy has to offer them that the good guy doesn't possess?”
We don't ditch girls that we really like. Even the best of us probably wouldn't ditch on a girl that we did not like. We would likely still commit to the plan or the date or whatever, but not leave you hanging; it’s not only rude, but inconsiderate.
I am going to go out on a limb here and say that it's very likely that this guy does not really like you. If he liked you then he would have made the date, called you back, apologized or have shown some other form of regret. I am sorry to be a bearer of bad news, but unless he has mental issues that we don't know about, he would not have acted so if he truly liked you. Sorry, I am sure you are a nice person and don't deserve to be ditched, hopefully this was the first and last time it ever happens.
Girls are sincere emotional pure hearted hey seem so but they are not so. Girls may be looking simple genuine but when you start knowing her affairs with other guys you will start crying and you should because it was your mistake not to know her properly

Finally I would love your boy friend and girls friend properly they are for you but beware of the fake ideas. You are to know he reality of love and these relations 

Wednesday, May 30, 2012


What love means for you
When she will talk to you holding your hands you will not remember where you are. They both will be far from the world’s problems its life which needs love on the all corners. When I heard and read about love before seven years ago I found it a boring topic or thought its wastage of the time mind kept growing as well as feeling and experience took place.
 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, and it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres. ~ by 1 Corinthians
In another words I found I somewhere that love is life and life is love “Love is not what the mind thinks, but what the heart feels.” ~ Greg Evans
“The hunger for love is much more difficult to remove than the hunger for bread”- Mother Teresa
Some people say the worst way to miss someone is when they are right next to you and you know you can't have them, but its worse when you thought you didn't want them anymore and then all of a sudden you realize you can't live without them
But when you fall in love with her you need her every time every moment or in every discussion she is also in the all activities of life.
Romance is the part of life Romantic love reaches out in little ways, showing attention and admiration. Romantic love remembers what pleases a woman, what excites her, and what surprises her. Its actions whisper: you are the most special person in my life.
“Love is always open arms. If you close your arms about love you will find that you are left holding only yourself.”
“Keep love in your heart. A life without it is like a sunless garden when the flowers are dead. The consciousness of loving and being loved brings warmth and richness to life that nothing else can bring.”~ Oscar Wilde

Thursday, May 24, 2012

How to forget her

Creating news ideas may be easy but removing something, someone from mind is really hard. What A great work to generate new ideas for new generation with creative mind on the other hand removing a person,thing or place which closed to your heart is very tough. i personally realized it several times happening with them. situations may be different but we a to adopt the reality of life. Our life keeps giving new experience according to time. But if you want to remove something or somebody from your mind then these points may be helpful.....
A. Be Calm .. outing the mind from the problem n giving relax to your body is important. Life needs rest with the quiet surroundings at lonely places sometimes.
B. If you are going forget a place it will be easy but if you wanna forget a man or woman then it will take several days
C. Try to remove his or her gifts or memorys as soon as possible because it will make you remember all the time

Wednesday, May 23, 2012

how girl fall in love

What will make a girl fall in love with a guy?
How to Impress a Girl and Make Her Fall in Love with a Boy

How to get a girl is tough question and may very difficult or easy depends on situation and girl too said one the boy to me recently in debate program organized by an association. Since that I have been planning to know more about it how to fall in love with a girl or woman. is it easy or tough? What need to be in love?  When I found on a web page most on wiki it explains..
Although most men, when young, think it's all about sex, but not true and they do find this out. Love is chemistry and either you fit with each other or you don't. "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." 

Personality is the all important key here. The best way to learn about life is go to a mall or park and sit down and people watch. Watch all ages of people and you'll see gorgeous women with plain looking men, vice-versa, and different races together, different ages together.

There are plenty of rules and advice for getting a girl to fall in love with you. This is not about those rules and advice. This article focuses on basic concepts that can be used to strengthen a girl's feeling of love for you. It is love, after all, so allow this to be more of a fluid guideline.

Open your eyes.
Girl or Women are everywhere and many are looking to fall in love. If you want a girl out there to fall in love with you, chances are a girl wants someone out there to fall in love with her.

Don't set expectations.
Become like a romantic Old man. Become desire less. Practice non-attachment. Expect nothing from the girl. This is not to say don't want the girl; it is just don't expect the girl to want you in return (which means you cannot be disappointed, only pleasantly surprised).

Show her how lovable you are.
 People don't seem to systematically decide who they fall in love with. It often comes with time, and in that time you need to show the girl that you are worth being around. It’s no like that all the time. Girls need love and care as well as protection from all the side from a lover

Give her space.
. This step isn't about ignoring her so SHE has to call you, or avoiding long conversations with her to torment her into loving you. Just allow her to live her life outside you. Allow her to see a movie eat food, hang around message, chat without you. Allow her to be without you and she will then decide to love you on her own terms.

Find out what she likes and do it with her.
If she's into museums, take her to one she hasn't been to and have a tour guide take you through the history. If she likes hiking find a trail that you two can spend the day walking. Whatever she's into you should encourage her and do them with her. This will show her that you support her ambitions and goals and she'll appreciate your company. Even if you don't like doing it, the fact that you like her is why you should do it.

Eye contact is really important to girls. If you look deep into our eyes, you may attract her easily  

Never try to be physical with her. She may become uncomfortable with you and get scared away.

Find out if she is single, but don't talk to her about it.

Make eye contact as much as you can. Try to get her to know that you notice her.

Act charming. Have witty conversations with her.

Know the latest fashions, trends, music, movies, and TV shows. Pick up a newspaper or a magazine and read through all of the sections.

Make friends with everyone
Girls might get discouraged and think you like someone else, and then they will stop trying.
Be the guy who everyone sits around and listens to.
Find out what you both have in common, and make sure that she knows that you two have the same likes and dislikes.

Make her feel really comfortable around you. Make sure that she knows that she is able to come to you with any problems that she might be having in her life. Let her know that not only can you listen to her problems, but also help solve them, or at least suggest ideas to help her solve them. Be warned, however. Offering advice is one thing, but girls don't talk about their problems to someone because they want that person to try and solve them all. They want someone who will listen, first and foremost.

love and lust what means of it

The differences between love and lust

Alicia Barnhart quotes wrote “True love never dies for it is lust that fades away. Love bonds for a lifetime but lust just pushes away.”

Marquis De Sade quotes (French nobleman and Novelist whose perverse sexual preferences and erotic writings gave rise to the term sadism. “Lust is to the other passions what the nervous fluid is to life; it supports them all, lends strength to them all ambition, cruelty, avarice, revenge, are all founded on lust.”

Love is an intense feeling of affection and care towards another person. It is a profound and caring attraction. On the other hand, lust is a strong desire of a sexual nature. Written on this website Finding the difference between love and lust will be tough. How you understand depends on it. Love is a human feeling whereas lust far away from it. Love is not connected with lust both are the different things somewhere people try to find some similarities in it. What means of love it means “a decision to commit oneself to another and to work through conflicts instead of giving up?” it is a deep affection; contentment, confidence of a human. How will you judge a person who loves you just find some qualities such as faithfulness on the person whom you love confidence and Willingness to make sacrifices for another. Working at settling differences. Able to compromise so that either both win or at least give the other person's opinion a chance
We love to each somewhere find selfishness always what we do we search the result of that things very fast if that doesn’t give result we try to leave that or may avoid it, love also need some results like we get Security, peace, a solid partnership which can provide the ideal atmosphere to raise confident secure children; a more stable society; radical decrease in the need for welfare, jails, lawyers and mental health counselors. But the question arises all the time is how you will love and to whom you will love??????????? Love takes time. Feelings come and go... No feeling lasts forever. No matter how much you love someone, if you live with them, there will be days when you loathe the sight of them. A decision to love does not depend on feelings or hormones.
As far as I would discuss on lust let me explain the meaning of it in details it not only meaning of sex it includes money also. Lust is all about me: what I want to do and how I can be gratified. One of the person explained this way “The object of lust is nothing more than a means to an end or way to meet my own wants. There is little regard for the impact my behavior will have on anyone else—especially the object of my selfish desires.”
One of the writers wrote in his novel “I've looked on many women with lust. I've committed adultery in my heart many times. God knows I will do this and forgives me.”

Presentation Skills :how to groom it

Presentations skills
Presentations for business, sales, and training - oral and multimedia
Santosh Chaudhary on teacher training programs
Presentations skills and public speaking skills are very useful in many aspects of work and life. Effective presentations and public speaking skills are important in business, sales and selling, training, teaching, lecturing and generally entertaining an audience. Developing the confidence and capability to give good presentations, and to stand up in front of an audience and speak well, are also extremely helpful competencies for self-development too. Presentations and public speaking skills are not limited to certain special people - anyone can give a good presentation, or perform public speaking to a professional and impressive standard. Like most things, it simply takes a little preparation and practice.
The formats and purposes of presentations can be very different, for example: oral (spoken), multimedia (using various media - visuals, audio, etc), PowerPoint presentations, short impromptu presentations, long planned presentations, educational or training sessions, lectures, and simply giving a talk on a subject to a group on a voluntary basis for pleasure. Even speeches at weddings and eulogies at funerals are types of presentations. They are certainly a type of public speaking, and are no less stressful to some people for being out of a work situation. If you are going to face pubic the you must the following things
Opening – you must decide how to begin it who should b respected and greeted welcoming words must be here.
Introductions – he topic you have chosen for speaking, should be introduced properly in few words
Middle – this the main body of your presentation, you must divide it in two or three areas and should keep explaining one by one
Conclusion- Never forget concluding your topic. Always put conclusion in short way.
Thanks- say thanks for the audience.
Before speaking anything in public you are supposed to get ready for it properly. Never forget three things 1 planning 2. Preparation then delivery

Sunday, May 20, 2012

Education VS Training

Can you imagine anvu illiterate personfg services without any payments. He doesn't need any training but works like a trained personal. Human learn by his environment, surrounded things and atmosphere. In the today's competitive world we are supposed to be trained in specific areas so that without any hesitation we can work confidently.
When people go to school. They don't think about any training. But hardly we find any trainer in schools there are lots of teachers but not trainers. We need to improve teaching skills too ,our teachers are not trainers they are just teaching to teach .they should teach to Learn or to enhance oneself. A school is education house which gives a complete educational atmosphere and knowledgeable people and encourages to improve knowledge.
We have millions of schools but Lakhs of schools are without any trained teachers how students will improve we can imagine. Our HRD minister Mr Kapil will answer your all question but naturally he will blame previous govt .hardly he will talk about any reform in education.  is a good lawyer but not good minister. He can talk about IIT, IIM not about primary education which need reform.

Friday, May 18, 2012


Your life is yours and you are supposed to make principles for your life. A few people can understand.some of the people find life as a challenge and they keep struggling until they reach at the peak of success. Success never matter to them because they are hungry to do challenging task . Being a trainer i found many changes in my personal life because of the challenges.
Life never stops working it keeps running like a river in the rain whether you are troubl or in happiness. It will be you who will bring changes in your life . Several people comes in life and goes bit some stays in mind forever whether they are good or bad they teach something.

Tuesday, May 15, 2012


Personality is depends on:-
1. Mental
2. Physical
3. Intellectual
Factor influence Personality:-
A. Heredity: we cannot help it.
B. General Appearances: we can do a little only.
C. Culture: We can change our society & atmosphere to change culture.
D. Experience: It counts valuable point to enhance personality.
E. Education & Training: Education & Training can help one to enhance his
Personality Traits (Characteristics):-
1) Appearance: Outer looking for example clothing, expressions and hairstyles
2) Speech Mannerism: It containsa)
Clarity of voice
b) Tone
c) Speed
3) Gesticulation
4)Mental Alertness
5) Consistency of thoughts i.e. stability of thoughts
6) Types of approach:
a) Positive approach
b) Negative approach
7) Leadership Qualities
8) Self-confidence in a positive approach
ABCRL Formula:-
A. Accuracy
B. Brevity
C. Clarity
D. Relevance
E. Logic
Self-Confidence Existed ina)
Self –respect
b) Self- esteem
c) Self –belief
Step for self-confidence:-
Step 1: Take off fear from mind
Step 2: Will (determination)
Step 3: +ve approach toward the life
Step 4: Know your shortcomings
Step 5: Inferiority complex

Formula for every step of life:
+ve Approach

Outer Personality:
a) Neatness, cleanliness and well mannered
b) Active, Enthusiastic and practical
c) Well informed and quick to act
d) Disciplined and amiable
e) Dynamic, flexible and reasonable
Professional Quality:
a) Clear in mind and systematic
b) Industrious and hard working
c) Responsibility
d) Clear vision and strong will power
e) Concentration of mind
Inner Quality:
a) Sympathetic, sweet, loving & caring
b) Not vindictive, impulsive, touchy & non-fluctuating
c) Calm & composed
d) Balance of extrovert ness & introvert ness
e) Balance of humour and sobriety
f) Balance of love & law
g) Confidence in self
h) Fearless & self controlled
Change by:
I. Action level
II. Thought level
Thought Level:
1. Waste thought :- impractical idea
2. Negative thought :- practical idea but harmful to self and
3. Ordinary thoughts
4. Positive thoughts

Left Hemisphere Right Hemisphere
1 Rational 1 Emotion
2 Verbal 2 Love
3 Logical 3 Patience
4 Scientific 4 Tolerance
5 Creative 5 Caring
6 Analytical 6 Picture,color,Paninting
7 Data Interpretation 7 Music